Attracting Hot Girls (9's and 10's)

Confused sent me this message: "Hey marcus, how tha hell do you attract HOT women!?!?!?!? it is rlly getting to me... I look decent looking im not ugly but I want to know wut the secret is to get hot girls to like you! Most of the time i'm lost when I try to talk to these girls and i remember flirting with one hot girl but it felt like she brushed her shoulders off and left me sitting there like a loser... Your advice means a lot, I've read so many articles about making women attracted to u but whenever i do it myself, it just doesnt end up working at all!"

Ricky sent me this message: "Is it true that nice guys don't get the hot girls? Is it because we are too... nice... i respect women so much, but lately I've seen girls from my high school dating bunch of assholes. Girls are so confusing sometimes... I need your help"



Most men believe that really attractive women are extremely hard to get. Let me tell you that it really isn't. Well... it isn't hard but it isn't easy either. You need to play the game in a different way.

It takes the same time and effort, but gaming 9's and 10's is different. Sometimes gaming 7's are harder than gaming 9's and 10's.

Girls that are 7's and 8's want a man that is nice to her and not a total ass with her, but they want a man that is somewhat strong and shows that he's alpha (so they feel secure with you). They also want their man to be somewhat sensitive so she has an emotional bond with him, too.

Your game for these girls have to be done well. You need to figure out how much you need to be dominant in the relationship to keep the attraction going and also how much of a connection (sympathetical relation) you need to pull her into bed. But one of the things that turns me on about women is how all of them are different in some way. Each girl you meet is different! It is very personal for them to know how much attraction and connection she needs with another man. There are so many factors that controls this ratio, and formula is complicated.

Here are a few factors :

• Parents ( who is more dominant in house ) - they always search for a father role in future BF
• First sexual experience \ First boyfriend (for example, if guy was cheating on her, she will search lots of rapport & trust in the next guy who comes, and less attraction)
• Last boyfriend (If the guy was bad in sex, she will look for guys who are more dominant and more sexual)
  
• Her friends (her friends have a lot of influence on her, and she will mirror their value)

So probably now you understand why it's not possible to tell how much attraction or rapport she may need before you start talking with a girl. It’s almost impossible to create prefect model thats going to work in every case. That’s why those 7's and 8's require a shitload of calibration.

To conclude, these girls need more rapport than attraction in her relationship.

Now we are going to talk about very attractive girls (the ones we rank 9's and 10's, which they look like supermodels). These girls are much more different and I will explain to you why, but first, let's take a look at the life of an attractive woman!

• Parents know how beautiful she is and they treat her whole life as a precious diamond.
• In high school, she is a Princess and guys are hitting on her left and right. All guys want to have sex with her.
• Every time she goes out, guys are licking her ass, and do everything she wants as they think that's the way to get into her panties.
  
• All guys are super, super insecure around her, and treat her nicely.
• She finds a rich boyfriend (Sponsor) who buys her everything. He's fun for a while, but after some time, she dumps him.
• When she asks for something, she gets it!

So do you see the problem? Pay attention, nice guys, you should be reading this carefully now. Attractive girls (9's and 10's) always gets hit on by guys and guys are always nice to them! So how do you make an attractive girl notice you and become interested in you?

By being different!

So basically to be different, and to create attraction, you need to break every possible rapport with her and you don't want to connect with her at all. You need to be different than everyone else. You need to show that you are not affected by her beauty at all, and you don't think she is special at all. You need to be a totally selfish bastard.

When you are with these hot girls, you have to cut every rapport away from her. She needs to create rapport with you. If you show any sign of interest and attraction to her, it might be a turn off to her. Remember that she can get whatever she wants and if you already show any attraction to her, it'll get boring for her. Don't give her what she wants.

Here are some examples when conversing with a 10:

• 10: Can you hand me this glass?
  Me : You have arms and legs.
  



• 10: I am helping my friend... He has a problem with his girlfriend... She takes drugs...(BlahBlahBlah)... He needs my help.
  Me : ....Give him a blowjob.
  



• 10 : I think I want to live somewhere else, maybe New York. Or... I'm not sure... Africa maybe as well.
  Me : Yeah, go to the jungle, that's best for you.
  



• 10 : I like (band/color/food/you get it)
  Me : I hate (her favorite band/color/food/you get it)
  

Honestly, I do feel weird acting this way with her but it is fun! If you keep up with this, she will stay with you. Interesting, right?

You have to be really careful how you take her IOIs (Indication of Interest).

If she says something like: "I like you, I can't get enough of you, you make me so happy..." Don't drop your game and think it's game over, you win. If you reply saying something like: "I really care about you also.. I like you a lot." It will be game over for YOU. Why? Because you showed her affection and she will see you as like the other guys she has been with and dealt with.

It's a sensitive game to play... making one mistake will cost you.
It is best to be congruent with your original image.

I want to thank a PUA named "badboy" at a forum. I've read his article on how to treat really attractive women and pretty much the whole thing you read above is his teachings! I still follow the above advice and I've been with two really attractive girls and I am in a year relationship with one of them.

I wish you all the best of luck! Go out there and socialize!

-Marcus
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