Going to the Club

MarshmallowFluff sends me the following message: "Could you give me some good tips when I go to the clubs? I go to clubs with my friends every once in a while and I see really attractive girls in one club that I'm starting to go more often. How can I show the girls at the club that I'm a really fun loose guy? Should I joke around more with my friends, be all aggressive and happy... I just don't know."

Hey MarshmallowFluff (lol wow),

Here are a couple good tips that I use when I go to the clubs:

• Act like you own the place. Walk in confidently. Keep your head high, walk slowly, don’t be afraid to take up space, and smile. How you enter a venue can set the tone for how people react to you the rest of the night.

• If you’re alone, approach a group right away (see below for how). If you’re with friends, look engaged with them. Do not wander around to “check out the bar” or scan the area with your eyes looking for attractive women.

• Be louder; almost every sober guy in a bar or club is too quiet.

• Stand up straight, make eye contact, and don’t lean in to hear her. In fact, never lean in.

Source: Magic Bullets Handbook

-Marcus
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