"Ok I'm trying to do some online dating game. I'm new to this thing, so I just checked out what other puas are doing in their online profiles, put in the materials from other puas that does not make me seem like someone else, and add some of my own.
Here's how my profile looks like:
Profile deleted for privacy reasons.
Ok so I sent messages to 10 girls, and only got a response from one (and I don't think I can pull off a date with her right now). What am I doing wrong? How do I improve on my profile and messages?
BTW here is the message and response that I got:
Hi Missy
You seem like fun
Though I'm not sure
What's the craziest thing you have done when your out drinking?
Myself, I enjoy things like skydiving too, as well as limosine rides to expensive charity events, and ferrari shopping. You can be my sugar mommy and pay all the expenses for me :)
Her response:
haha oh ya!!
or...you can buy me a bunch of cool
things and i can let you borrow them
My response:
great idea!
I'll buy you milk, so you'll grow taller
messaging here is annoying. What's your phone number?
Her response:
haha im lactose in tolerent so i wont get taller
ill just throw up...and i dont give my number
out tha easily
Should I add girls to favourites before I message them? That seems to be like what everyone else is doing.
How should I change my game plan?
Thanks a lot!"
Hey Dragonstyle,
I took a look at your profile and believe me man, you are definitely not going to get any girls with what you have.
I'll first begin with what is RIGHT on your profile:
1. You have pictures of yourself, smiling and showing how much fun you can have (which is good and it shows girls you are social and not some kid who stays at his house, laying down on the couch all day)
2. ...That is all I can think of.
Now the MISTAKES you have on your profile:
1. Not enough pictures of you. Here's a couple of tips when you are adding pictures in your profile. Make sure you (or the picture) looks good in a thumbnail size picture and finally, the most important tip anyone will ever give you: Get more pictures with you surrounded with friends/people. You need to show girls that check out your profile that you are surrounded with friends/people. Doing this will show girls that you are a fun guy to be with and you have social proof. Believe me man, the more friends you have, the more attractive you will appear to girls. So go out there and talk to people (especially girls; making friends with girls is definitely going to help you find a girl in no time).
2. There is absolutely nothing about you on your profile. I read your About Me section and what you have there is the biggest turn off of all time. Not only does your About Me describe NOTHING about you, you tell girls that if they don't pick you, they are making a stupid mistake. You can't force girls to pick you over all the other guys out there. Delete everything you wrote on your About Me section and actually write something about yourself. And don't LIE about it, which brings me to:
3. Take off the "billionaire seeking girl 2 blow money on" motto right off your profile. Okay man, you are looking for a good strong relationship with a girl right? Having that motto up shows that you are going to spend money on them and they will USE you for it. The last thing you want is a girl to use you for money, right? If you are just doing this for online dating (being with another girl over the internet but never really meeting each other at all because you both live in different states or country), it would still be a disaster. No girl wants to be with a guy who lies about being a billionaire. Even if you are a billionaire, girls will find you TOO EASY to be with. They will use you and then stop talking to you once you bought a good amount of gifts for her.
4. What the "First Date" box is showing has to be the BIGGEST turn-off in your whole page. Oh Gawd man, just re-read what you wrote:
"I'll confess that i'm deeply in love with you and I want to have sex with you and your my soulmate and I'll propose to you. Then I'll phone you ten times a day asking you what I did wrong until you change your phone number."
Let me explain to you what you are saying just in case you actually think your quote is "very clever".
What you are saying is that you are deeply in love with someone you just know for one single day (which I assume because it's in the First Date box) and you are going to use that fake love in hope to have sex with her. That shows girls you are a pervert... Now you are saying you will propose to her on your first date with her... c'mon man... it is a BIG step for women when it comes to getting MARRIED... so why would you propose to her when you just know her for ONE DAY? Right after, you will phone her 10 times a day, which just plain shows girls that not only are you a pervert and a liar... you are also a stalker.
If you are saying to yourself "Yo Marcus, that whole thing is just a joke... it's for fun". No dude, it really isn't. When I read your About Me section, it shows girls that you are arrogant because "they are not sure what they are looking for in a guy". Girls DO know what they are looking for in a guy and you have no right to tell them that they are making a mistake if they meet someone else other than you.
The funniest thing I saw in your profile was this:
"-untrustworthy, because I'm always honest and trustworthy to everyone around me, and I deserve better"
How could you be honest or trustworthy if you are lying about being a billionaire and saying in your First Date box that you will love a girl on the same day you have the first date with her just so you can get into her pants. Honestly, you really don't deserve better and that is what the 10 girls you sent a message to are thinking.
5. I see you are in no one's favorite list... Remember what I said previously? Having a lot of friends shows a girl that people love chilling with you and you are an easy-going guy and cool. Seeing that you have no friends on your profile is a BIG turn-off also. Make new friends!
Now to explain to you what went wrong in your email conversation with that girl you were talking to:
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Hi Missy
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-Not a great start. Online gaming and real-time gaming are two different things. Girls know that they need to be more careful when they are online gaming because of all the sexual predators out there. Imagine you were a girl and you read "Hey Missy" on your email from some guy who only has three pictures of himself, has nothing that describes anything about the guy, and his About Me and First Date boxes show how arrogant he is and how he will only love the girl just for sex... Yeah... SEXUAL PREDATOR ALERT! SEXUAL PREDATOR ALERT!
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You seem like fun
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-How do you even know? You don't even know her. Once again, this line only works at the clubs just because the girl will see that you were watching her laughing or having fun with her friends. And that line feels like a stupid pick-up line when you read it over the Internet.
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Though I'm not sure
What's the craziest thing you have done when your out drinking?
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-Her first impression after looking at your lacking profile and your "Hey Missy, You seem like fun" business should already have her deleting your email by now. But if she has read this far, she will read that question and think: "Umm... why should I talk about myself when your profile clearly shows you don't want to describe what kind of person you are..."
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Myself, I enjoy things like skydiving too, as well as limosine rides to expensive charity events, and ferrari shopping. You can be my sugar mommy and pay all the expenses for me :)"
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-Once again, stupid line to use while online gaming. These lines only work at the clubs or outside because you need to make yourself sound like you are joking around when you say the above line. A girl reading that will think you are using your money to get into her pants and that shows girls that you think they are sluts and easy to get. By the way, you are not a damn billionaire! Everyone hates an asshole who brags about their money. Don't even use the line above...
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her response:
"haha oh ya!!
or...you can buy me a bunch of cool
things and i can let you borrow them "
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-I'm surprised she even sent you a message back but I guess she's really bored. Right there, you can see that she is more attracted about your money than YOU! If a girl is more attracted to your money than you, you are obviously going to get used and thrown in a garbage can when she's done getting what she wants. You are showing how easy you are!
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my response:
"great idea!
I'll buy you milk, so you'll grow taller"
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-Personally, I find that line to be amusing but once again, it is much better to use it OUT there at the clubs or anywhere outside rather than using it for online gaming. Hmm... actually that line sounds really funny so you could get a few laughs using it while online gaming but faking about being a billionaire has already caused big problems for you by now. The girl talking to you probably didn't find it funny at all because she's not interested in you. She honestly doesn't give a shit about you, just your money.
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messaging here is annoying. What's your phone number?"
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-You are asking for her phone number... after turning her off so many times above. By now, it shows you are desperate and too easy. She will even think you are a sexual predator and you want her phone number so you can look her up on Yellow pages and figure out where she lives.
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her response:
"haha im lactose in tolerent so i wont get taller
ill just throw up...and i dont give my number
out tha easily"
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Fail. Move on. By now, she is definitely not interested in you after you showed her how easy you are. She doesn't EVEN KNOW you and nothing in your profile describes anything about you. You don't even have what your hobbies are on your profile. And she also didn't give her phone number because she probably read your First Date section on your profile, and she doesn't want some stalker calling her ten times every day.
Overall man, you really need a big fix up with your profile. Follow my advice above and when you think you have fixed it up, go to http://www.goodsideofthenet
By the way, I probably sounded harsh but don't take it personally. :)
Good luck!
-Marcus
http://www.goodsideofthenet
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